The Dr is IN:
We’ve talked of “one offs”, “accomplishment”, “tiebreaker”, “marriage-breaker”, “marriage-maker”, “relationship-splitter-mender-ender”. My question is: If any and, or all can serve a pilgrim in a manner considered positive in their life would this not be another indicator the Camino is truly a force to be considered?
Are we pilgrims not unique enough that whether a “one off” or a multiple Camino sojourner the accomplishment is reward itself?
Should the effort necessary to complete a Camino, if known to an employer, not be that tiebreaker all other things considered equal?
Your marriage may be long suffering, in need of renewal or strong and satisfying; the Camino providing the breathing space needed for an amicable resolution, or the thrill of an additional shared adventure in an already full life together.
The start of summer, or a long separation, can be the most trying of times for young (in heart AL) love. Will any romance be strong enough to bridge the months until the lovers reunite? If they are going to different locations (college, new job, new city, Camino) will the absence truly make the heart grow fonder, or will the seeds of new love burst forth in this moment?
I’m a firm believer that if you are seeking a new partner, for what ever reason, the best place to find that person is where you are both sharing the same love interest. Be it tennis camp, horse racing/riding, soccer tournaments or on Camino. It’s way easier, in my mind, to already share a passion than try to change another’s to yours.
So often when we embark on our Camino we do so with a hidden, or at least an unspoken agenda: I speak mine aloud now to _______________ as I walk the Way. Life is too short to remain _____________.
How would you “fill in” those blanks?
There’s a song by Garth Brooks titled “
Thank God for Unanswered Prayers”.
Be careful what you wish for…that just may come true.
Oh, and as far as an addition to your CV, consider this:
I have completed the
Camino de Santiago, a ________ km/mi endeavor that requires: attention to detail, physical stamina, awareness of multitudinous social and cultural mores, ability to work and cooperate with diverse personalities under often arduous and exacting circumstances culminating in successful completion of the task. As recognition, I received the coveted
Compostela, indicative of my strong belief in the many positive personal traits and convictions I possess.