I'm sorry you had such an unpleasant experience, but everyone please cancel when you know you won't make it [edit: and major kudos to the person above who told them in person, even though that resulted in a very unpleasant experience end edit]. Perhaps the owner in the case above was also under pressure, with so many pilgrims on the road, and maybe they were out of sorts because they'd earlier had someone burst into tears when they said they were completo. I booked three nights in SJPdP because I wanted to explore the area; when I arrived they were predicting a snow storm would arrive in two days. I told the nice owners at the albergue (now Belairi, at the time a different name) that I could not stay, I needed to get ahead of the storm, but insisted they keep my fee (after all, I was happy when they let me book those nights, and the owners at first tried to refund my fee). They in turn thanked me, esp for telling them there was now room for others who needed it, and if they found another pilgrim to fill that bed would donate the money to the poor. A win all around.