K this really bugs me. Why can't we be real here?? (Im sure I'm gonna get taken out the back and shot for this but here goes...)
Tell me...why is it a bad thing to be inconsiderate and rustle bags but just peachy keen to disregard your snoring issues? Why can't the SNORERS be the bigger people and have their snoring checked to see if it can be alleviated or brought down to a minimum before you leave for the Camino?? Why is it the
non snorers that have to deal with the snorers...especially when if you snore you could probably take care of it???
Thats just incredulous to me.
Its not
just snoring...its many things. I get sick of people telling me that I should just internalize and deal with other peoples crap because "I shouldn't offend them". Yet...they are offending me (I know I am getting some amens from the amen corner) and they never have to be confronted. Well I am going to be brave and confront. We are grown...all adults...lets be forthright! (this applies to the 5 a.m. club too!)
I am NOT SAYING that snoring offends me. What offends me is the lack of consideration for the rest of us that are supposedly expected to be more than considerate to you? (
this is in regard to all these issues...the negatives of the Camino)
I understand that there are going to be some snorers (sleep walker/talkers/people who make trips to the potty lots etc etc etc.) who have
tried to take care of it have done the best they can. KUDOS on those people and for THOSE people I will gladly wear earplugs or sleep in my tent! But COME ON! If you have a chronic snoring problem... or for that matter any other disturbing medical problem or bad habit....WHY DON'T
YOU BE RESPONSIBLE and have it checked before you leave to see if you
CAN fix it. Why would you put others through something you don't need to like disrupting their sleep which could cause them to make poor decisions or to physically hurt themselves. Sleep deprivation can be deadly when walking on a highway or through the mountains...and did you know spouses have even been known to lose their hearing from chronic snorers? Thats just NOT ok!! And at least consider your own health...did you know that snoring can cause lack of oxygen to the body that can cause heart failure and stroke..other serious problems and sometimes death for a snorer? (try google walking and find out exactly how snoring affects you and how it can be treated there are many many articles)
Look...
It is common sense to have a medical issue treated before you embark on any journey. 80% of snoring is due to the palate in the back of your throat relaxing and vibrating for many and various reasons...but that is what snoring is. It can be taken care of in many cases by a mouth guard given to you by a Dr or a Dentist. Sometimes the problem is more serious and those with Sleep Apnea know exactly how much so... some are on special breathing machines for the problem.(Again Kudos for those who have sought medical treatment) For THOSE people I would gladly endure a night of snoring. And for those people who have tried I would be as patient and loving and accepting as the day is long because they have DONE THEIR BEST!
My point is... why should ALL the people around you have to deal ...wearing earplugs and white noising it...feeling groggy from lack of sleep...grumpy because you are waking up refreshed and the rest of the Albergue didn't get a wink?
ATTENTION SNORERS...and you know who you are...I feel that you should at least make an effort to see if you can fix it. I don't think its ok to dump a problem like that on everyone else if you can all help it.
I am not a hater...I don't dislike snorers...in fact
my favorite person in the world snores...my dad...but I do think it is the
snorers responsibility to do what you can to keep it to a minimum
just like not rustling bags.
If you have not even asked to see if it can be treated that is unacceptable in my opinion.
I call B.S. on the people who think that a those lacking self awareness or being unwilling to deal with their own issues should be tolerated because for some reason it has become my problem instead of theirs. That's like me telling you I can just do what I want regardless if
my medical issue interferes with your life. How bout this scenario...lol...when I'm on the Camino...I just decide to stop taking my meds thinking that oh everyone can deal with me the way I am when unmedicated...I'll be noisy and up all night restless and walking around lights on...having loud anxiety attacks...partying all night...etc...oh that would infuriate most of you...I may even be shunned and stoned by the masses....yet its a
medical problem...why can you be the bigger person and understand that????(Shakes my head...) cause (whine whine whine) I don't want to take responsibility ...its too hard. too time consuming. too embarrassing. no biggy really...you should just accept my poor behaviour cause I can't help it. (clearsmythroatandmublesthatsjustcrap)
I again call B.S.
You can all think I'm mean but I am just telling the truth here.
Listen.
If you are going to be in a community...then consider yourself as responsible as the next guy to make the community work. Take responsibility for the issues (
snoring or anything else) that
you know are gonna be issues and don't let them be issues if you can at all help it. Snoring
can be helped in many cases. It's a lack of consideration and what I call being oblivious to others needs if you don't at least try to get help.
(puts my rain poncho on and gets ready for the pummelling of rotten tomatoes about to be inflicted on me)