@Scott Peters , take some really deep breaths. Then take a few days, minimum, paying attention to what you do in your current, pre-camino, life. Think hard about whats good and what isn't. Write lists: pros, cons, neutrals. Then have a big think about what you want out of the camino: a life changing experience; an easy hike in lovely countryside; a chance to think without every-day life interrupting; a chance to party with all sorts of amazing people from all around the globe.
Then think very, very hard about what it is you are really scared of - how well would you cope with a day with no-one to talk to who speaks your language; what if you were all alone in a strange building for the night (safe, just alone); how long can you queue at the bar before it all gets too much; how disastrous would it be if you can't get a bed in your first pick Albergue but have to go somewhere else; what if someone tells you you are not a real pilgrim because...
By the way there are no, or rather few, rules on the camino. And there is definitely no rule that says that you have to walk the Frances first. In May there will be many pilgrims on the Norte. In May there will always be a bed on the Frances - and room at the bar.
If you want to walk to Santiago start in Leon, or Oviedo, or Porto. But try hard to understand why you want to do it then your camino experience will be real, for you.
And when you have figured out why you want to walk camino take a few deep breaths, pick up your pack and walk.