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The Caminos continue to give to us as a Hospitaleros. GraciasThe Way is full of energy, spirituality, connections with nature and with other people. When the Pilgrims open for such a Way, they experience something they cannot experience in "normal life". At least that's what I experienced and several pilgrims with whom I am in contact.
So I wanted to give something to the Way, in turn. I wanted to bring the Way closer to the people, to show them what is the Way, how does it look like and encourage them to think that they also go too Way.
I did two things, exhibition and book.
Two years ago was the first exhibition of my photographs and to date it has been in 14 cities in Croatia. When I was preparing the exhibition, they told me to put a short text next to the photographs. That's how I started writing, and it started to hit me. That's how the book with my experience of the Way came about.
here is a link to my exhibition
So, what you done, for the Way, after finished the Way?
I am of a similar mind to @Ferdinand the Bull, and engage in quiet advocacy on Camino matters in my local community. And add one short stint as a hospitalero.I have tried not to over sell it nor done it in a overly enthusiastic "new born and saved pilgrim way".
It was fairly demanding. I was at San Anton for a week, and had both good and bad times. It is a small albergue, and I think across the six days it was open before I left, there were 32 pilgrims. Most were great, but there were a couple that were problematic.How was your experience as hospitalero, if I may ask? I'm curious about it and wondering if it might be something for me?
But I guess there are many different threads on this topic already and every hospitalero has a unique experience - both good and bad times? Because I don't believe in the purely romantic thoughts and ideas some have about being a hospitalero.
You didn’t ask me exactly, but here is what I have to say: it is both very demanding and very rewarding. From early morning, preparing breakfast and then clearing up when pilgrims leave at 8 you can be busy enough, but not too busy to see each one off on their day’s camino. Thorough cleaning of albergue, washing and hanging out towels, pillowcases, bedcovers. Checking provisions, if there is a meal offered. Shopping for food and cleaning materials, not to mention loo paper. Free time includes lunch. Open doors and be ready for the new day’s pilgrims. Be there, available. To listen, to answer questions, to show where first aid box is for example. Prepare the meal, and if you are very lucky you will have offers of help from pilgrims who know how to cook! It takes its toll, over the fifteen days. It is important to take personal time after all the work is done, and before the doors reopen for the afternoon...How was your experience as hospitalero, if I may ask? I'm curious about it and wondering if it might be something for me?
But I guess there are many different threads on this topic already and every hospitalero has a unique experience - both good and bad times? Because I don't believe in the purely romantic thoughts and ideas some have about being a hospitalero.
Thanks for your post, and your lovely presentation,. A lot of work went into this!The Way is full of energy, spirituality, connections with nature and with other people. When the Pilgrims open for such a Way, they experience something they cannot experience in "normal life". At least that's what I experienced and several pilgrims with whom I am in contact.
So I wanted to give something to the Way, in turn. I wanted to bring the Way closer to the people, to show them what is the Way, how does it look like and encourage them to think that they also go too Way.
I did two things, exhibition and book.
Two years ago was the first exhibition of my photographs and to date it has been in 14 cities in Croatia. When I was preparing the exhibition, they told me to put a short text next to the photographs. That's how I started writing, and it started to hit me. That's how the book with my experience of the Way came about.
here is a link to my exhibition
So, what you done, for the Way, after finished the Way?
Thank you for your honest and somewhat thought provoking answer. I have only been at few albergues with hospitaleros but now when I think about it and reflect over your answer I realise that although those albergues were sometimes modest in appereance and comfort when compared to the other ones they were also among the best when it comes to atmosphere. I think now the difference was made by the hospitalleros...and the other pilgrims who lend them a helping hand.You didn’t ask me exactly, but here is what I have to say: it is both very demanding and very rewarding. From early morning, preparing breakfast and then clearing up when pilgrims leave at 8 you can be busy enough, but not too busy to see each one off on their day’s camino. Thorough cleaning of albergue, washing and hanging out towels, pillowcases, bedcovers. Checking provisions, if there is a meal offered. Shopping for food and cleaning materials, not to mention loo paper. Free time includes lunch. Open doors and be ready for the new day’s pilgrims. Be there, available. To listen, to answer questions, to show where first aid box is for example. Prepare the meal, and if you are very lucky you will have offers of help from pilgrims who know how to cook! It takes its toll, over the fifteen days. It is important to take personal time after all the work is done, and before the doors reopen for the afternoon...
There is also the situation , if you are not with a companion you know, where you need to to learn to dance with your fellow hospitalera/o - and maybe even if you know your companion! - in order to put pilgrims first, and make sure that relationships between hospitaleros is peaceful. That could be problematic... play to each other’s strengths, and remember the objective: at the service of the pilgrim. I know I have been lucky in that my experience has been in the back of beyond where there is no other distraction, just the albergue and a beautiful environment. No shops, bars, hooligans of any description!
Your choice, and here is one link if you decide you might like to look at becoming a hospitalera/o. There are others in various parts of the world.
Camino de Santiago
Bienvenido a la Web de la Federación Española de Asociaciones de Amigos del Camino de Santiago. Todo sobre el Camino de Santiago, información, guías, descripción, planos, consejos, albergues, hospitaleros, noticias, Asociaciones de Amigos del Camino.www.caminosantiago.org
I'm confused. What if that IS what someone did to give back?this is not a threads about hospitalera - hospitalero. Here we talk about what we did for Way after the Way.
That particular hospitallera had definitely not left her ego at the door....I have huge admiration for hospitalero/as, as I know I could never do it myself – mentally, spiritually, temperamentally, and, now, physically. I really wish I could, as it must be one of the most rewarding ways of “giving back” to the camino. Please don’t tell me I can; we are all different and I know I can’t.
But let me tell you a story of how NOT to be a hospitalera. It was a once-off. Every other hospitalero/a I have encountered has been wonderful. It was a “municipal” in France. I arrived late afternoon (about 5pm) and the door was locked, so I rang the bell. After a while she came and let me in, and locked the front door again with a key, which she put in her pocket. She showed me where to put my boots, my rain jacket and stick, then told me to wait, as she was just checking in another pelerine upstairs. There was a plastic chair so I sat and waited.
And waited and waited. I could faintly hear them chatting upstairs. After 20 minutes I realised that she must have forgotten all about me, so I went up the stairs, and popped my head around the door. At first she looked at me blankly, then suddenly remembered who I was. No problem, I said, and she finished checking in the other pelerine, and came back downstairs with a large plastic rectangular bucket, and told me to put my backpack in it.
I looked at this in dismay, as I was physically unable to lift it with a 8kg pack inside it (I have osteoarthritis in my lower spine). I told her I was terribly sorry, but please could I carry my backpack upstairs as normal on my back, and then I will put it directly into the plastic tray once I was upstairs. She looked at me severely, and carried the tray, with the pack in it, up the stairs herself.
The checking in process took forever while she interrogated me with all kinds of questions. I am a very private person and I found her questions extremely intrusive, but I was finally allowed to go into the dorm and meet my three room mates, who were really nice; three lovely ladies, from three different countries, also walking solo, just like me. Just the four of us (and the hospitalera) staying that night.
After a long day of walking alone, hoping for some congenial company at the gite that evening, for some strange reason, having taken an hour to check in, I now desperately needed to “escape” and I headed back down to the front door, which was locked and I couldn’t open it. So I went back upstairs and asked her where the fire exit was, as I was beginning to get a bit panicky now. She showed me the back entrance, and then unlocked the front door to let me out.
I found a supermarket, bought some things for supper, hit the bar for a much needed very large glass of vin de blanc, wrote up my journal while there, and returned to the hostel, which of course was locked, and I had to ring the bell.
They were having supper – the hospitalera (or whatever the word is in French), and my three room mates. I joined them at the table with the few items I had bought. She reigned supreme, demanding that I take some of the bread. I didn’t want any bread, so politely said non, merci; she was offended. The others ducked their heads pretending not to notice. It was the worst communal supper I have ever experienced in my life. She was so dominant and we four peregrinas were, well, just trying to be good, thankful peregrinas. We really wanted to be alone, to chat quietly amongst ourselves. I got through the evening by telling myself that this was her calling, I could never do what she was doing, I should be admiring her, not hating her, but was I glad to get out of there next morning . . . after I had had to ask her to unlock the front door of course.
Sorry, just needed to get that off my chest. I am grateful, really; I just need to do a few more caminos and I’ll get there . . . working on it.
As for what HAVE I given back to the camino? Well, maybe, after taking a couple of groups from home on the camino, because, individually, they all said they “could never ever in a million years walk across Spain alone”, I am pleased to report back that some of them are now doing just that . . . and consequently learning all the lessons that such an endeavour demands of them . . . .
Please,
this is not a threads about hospitalera - hospitalero. Here we talk about what we did for Way after the Way.
Thank you
I am now a little concerned that you think that we should all feel some obligation to do something public following one's pilgrimage.Please,
this is not a threads about hospitalera - hospitalero. Here we talk about what we did for Way after the Way.
Thank you
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