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Love that, cher...well said! Good advice too. Nothing to add.Most of all, don't worry about feeling like a schmuck. Embrace the joy!!
learning a few words of the language of the countries you'll be traveling in will do wonders in reducing the "schmuck" factor (Schmuck, in german language, btw means also: Jewelry /precious stones / adornment/s)Hello all. I will be departing 10 September for stockholm from New York. I have never traveled outside of the states and plan on taking two weeks of travel around Europe before beginning the camino frances. I have a passport, backpack, boots, a sleeping bag, and a tent. Im 28 years old and feel like I can get by with the bare essentials. If there is any advice that someone with experience can share with me, it would be much appreciated. My main concern is that I will get to europe this fall and feel like an unprepared schmuck. Please advise if you know of something I absolutely should do before departing. Thanks so much. -Josh
Sorry, not true! We have a very mixed European family, not to count the friends. I do no know of any of them that wears their wedding ring on the right hand and that includes me, who got married in Europe!And, if you don't want to be 'bothered' while you are traveling in Europe, wear a cheap wedding band on your right index finger. You might still be annoyed by some persons, but not by all if they think you are married. (A ring on your left hand signals you are 'only' engaged...)
vaguely remember a discussion in that regard ages ago - seems that in many german speaking areas the wedding ring/band is (often) on the right index finger. everywhere else seems to be on the left index finger... - switzerland is left too...ringwiseSorry, not true! We have a very mixed European family, not to count the friends. I do no know of any of them that wears their wedding ring on the right hand and that includes me, who got married in Europe!
Who does make anexception are the Dutch Protestants who, yes, wear their wedding ring on their right hand!
The explanation given was that the left hand is nearer the heart!vaguely remember a discussion in that regard ages ago - seems that in many german speaking areas the wedding ring/band is (often) on the right index finger. everywhere else seems to be on the left index finger... - switzerland is left too...ringwise
haven't the foggiest why that is so .... if anyone does know - i'd be interested to learn about it. thanks
Sorry, not true! We have a very mixed European family, not to count the friends. I do no know of any of them that wears their wedding ring on the right hand and that includes me, who got married in Europe!
Who does make an exception are the Dutch Protestants who, yes, wear their wedding ring on their right hand!
...nearer to the heart -- like that oneThe explanation given was that the left hand is nearer the heart!
Yes, Claudia, I think I've seen some Germans wearing their ring on the right hand. Maybe with them too, a question of defining their religion? Catholic or Protestant.
walk the Camino first, and then do your travelling
Really?!! The poor guy is just looking for advice about his first great adventure! Let's not scare him by thinking he has to protect himself with a wedding ring. Should we tell him to wear an evil eye for all of the gypsies outside of the train stations...or maybe some garlic to ward off the vampires he will encounter?And, if you don't want to be 'bothered' while you are traveling in Europe, wear a cheap wedding band on your right index finger. You might still be annoyed by some persons, but not by all if they think you are married. (A ring on your left hand signals you are 'only' engaged...)
If you go to Paris, it's VERY expensive! Go to markets to get your food--a little baquette, some delicious cheese, some fruit...if you like wine or beer, a little wine or beer... Also be aware of the pick pockets and scam artists. (Google these to learn a bit more so you can know what and who to look for and how to avoid them.)
But most of all, in Paris--as in all of Europe (especially the Camino), take a photo of yourself with the big goofy grin you will have plastered on your face. I'll tell ya, get used to it. You'll be wearing it a lot!
Good point!! We should do this more often anyway, but especially when we are embarking on an adventure beyond our familiar safety nets.As from the examples of the 2 pilgrims that passed:
Tell those you Love & leave behind you love them.
Sorry...was trying to be funny and failedPlease, let's be nice.
Really?!! The poor guy is just looking for advice about his first great adventure! Let's not scare him by thinking he has to protect himself with a wedding ring. Should we tell him to wear an evil eye for all of the gypsies outside of the train stations...or maybe some garlic to ward off the vampires he will encounter?
Apart from the Dutch, which follows as I mentioned: Catholics on the left hand, Protestants on the right. ( I'm married to a Dutch Catholic)!
We have both Catholic and Protestant friends and we all proudly wear our ring according to our religious practices!
Anyway, I think we are getting slightly off course from the original posting!
Hey Josh,
First of all, congrats for taking the plunge and traveling abroad. Not everyone get the guts to do this!
I've been traveling all over the world (I live in Scottsdale, AZ but used to live in NYC and England) and here is my essential list for when I travel by myself overseas: (Some of this was mentioned above, but wanted to give you my full checklist. It may be a bit overkill, but will put your family at ease knowing you did all of this.) This contains nothing about packing (I have an entire different list for that and there are tons of posts on this forum for packing for the Camino... but don't forget your international adapter for your phone charger!)... This list is just what to do before traveling abroad. It's stuff I wish I knew when I first started traveling internationally in my 20's. I LOVE traveling internationally and it's one of the best things I have done in my life. It's a wonderful adventure and nothing to EVER be afraid of. Just keep your head on straight, just like you would at home and ENJOY every moment!
Hope you enjoy and let me know what you found helpful!
If you want to read about my Camino, join me at http://caminoconcierge.com
- Passport - Passport must not expire during the time-frame of your trip (they usually want 6 months on it) - you should be good here
- I then take a couple photo's of this. I store one in my bag and store one on-line where I could get anytime from an internet cafe in case the passport was ever lost.
- I also take a picture and keep in my phone.
- Other Documents, Entrance/Exit Fees & Immunizations - I consult the State Department and make sure the countries I am visiting don't require other documents like Visas, extra immunizations, etc. http://www.state.gov. Also, some countries charge additional entrance/exit fees and you need the cash on-hand - nothing extra is needed for Sweden and Spain for the Camino, so you are fine here.
- Register with State Department - I register myself on the State Department site my itinerary. It's so they know I am out there and they actually send emails if there are any issues in the region. It actually was helpful for me once (yeah, sometimes I travel to crazy areas of the world.)
- Itinerary - Leave an itinerary (with some contact information) with your family so they know "generally" where you will be and how to contact you. If you lose your phone, have a backup plan and have at least one number memorized or a document stored on-line somewhere you can access from an internet cafe.
- Credit Cards/Debit - I pick the credit cards/debit cards I am going to travel with. I usually have my debit and two credit cards (one is a backup for in Europe they frequently use mobile/wifi credit card readers and many times they cannot read my card. Europe is much more advanced in banking than the US and their cards usually have the chip. We are still in the dark ages with the magnetic swipe. That does cause issues sometimes, so usually one of my magnetic cards work.
- I then call each bank (using number on back) and let them know my travel dates. They then will not place a hold on my cards.
- I also make sure to have a 4-digit PIN associated with each card
- I usually record each credit card and customer service number (both the local US and collect number to call internationally) on a password protected file and keep uploaded somewhere or with family, etc. So if I get anything stolen, I contact this sheet and immediately call all my banks and report the lost card(s). I have actually had to do this several times in my travel. Not a biggie but it SAVED me!
- Credit Card with no international fees - Take at look at your credit card and make sure they don't charge additional fees for every transaction. They can charge up to 3%, which adds up. It might be worth getting a different one just for this.
- Check your on-line statements periodically - You never know if someone cloned your card. It happened to me in Mexico one time, so I make it a practice now. Simple and takes me a couple minutes about once or twice a week.
- Cash - I always order some of the local currency from my bank before I leave. Depending on the country, it may take them a few days to get for you. You pay the actual conversion rate. Converting at the airport and those other money conversion places charges you extra fees and not worth it. When I am in the country and need more money, just use the local ATM. But NEVER use a mobile or portable ATM. Always use one outside or inside a bank. There are many swipe scanners in the mobile ones... even in the US.
- Bank Fees - You will be charged with bank fees each time you use the ATM, just like here when you take cash from a different bank, but it's a bit more due to international fees. Here is a tip:
- ATM with no international fees - This is now going to be my practice, is to open a Charles Schwab High Yield Investor Checking Account. I like this also because I can deposit in the account only the money I need, and if my card is ever stolen, they won't have access to my entire bank account. My friend on the Camino used this and when she needed more money, her husband deposited for her from home. http://www.schwab.com/public/schwab/banking_lending/checking_account
- Money Belt - Great suggestion above. I was actually pick-pocketed once in Rome from an expert (while we were in a crowded bus). He got under my closed coat and into a clasped purse that was UNDER my coat and stole my camera. Usually that was where I stored my passport, cash and return plane ticket. That day, I put all those valuables in the money belt and so thankful I did. Please know, this wasn't shared to scare you; Europe is just as safe, if not safer than New York. Just keep your head straight and be aware, as anyone should when they are not in their home surroundings.
- Cell Plan & Apps -
- International Coverage - US plans generally don't work internationally unless you add an internal component to them. First, make sure your phone can get international coverage. Just contact your provider. I had an iPhone 4S which does provide international service along with Verizon. All I did, for extra $25 per month is allow for emergency data downloads up to 100MB. While in Europe, the first thing I do is TURN OFF the Data. I lived on wifi for 99% of my time in Europe, for most cafe's, hostels, alburges provide wifi. Only in emergencies when I needed to get googlemaps up and running, would I turn on my data.
- Text - Remember, your TXTs are charged when international... your unlimited plan doesn't work for international text. So use What's App or other type of communication tools instead.
- Map Apps - Also, there are tons of apps out there, but the one I love for city maps is CityMaps2Go. I purchased the Pro version which allows you to download all major european cities off-line. I used this just a few months ago while in Paris. It's so cool for it is like Google maps in finding local bars, restaurants, hotels, etc, but also tracks your GPS location, withOUT using your data plan. I was completely lost in Paris and I was able to navigate my way. I downloaded many of the Provinces and big cities along the Camino before I went and referenced these maps along the way.
- CaminoPlaces - Ivar has created a new app for finding other pilgrims, alburgues, etc on the Camino. This came out after I walked my Camino, but I know I would have loved this app and was actually thinking of developing one myself. Sometimes you want to know if a café is open in the town ahead, if a pilgrim is near by, etc.
- Information about the Country - I always do a bit of research on the country I am visiting before I go, their weather, customs, holidays, festivals and other great stuff. Here is a few sites I look at:
- CIA.gov - seriously, they have some cool information here
- LonelyPlanet.com - love their site and books
- Just google....
- Travel Sites - Periodically along the Camino, or during my international trips I would want a private room, hotel, B&B etc. Here are sites I use:
- Booking.com
- Hotels.com
- AirBnB.com
- Skyscanner
- Country's version of "911" - Find out how to dial the emergency number for the local country. Guaranteed it's not "911.". Thank goodness I have not had to use this yet, but if you are reading this forum, sadly pilgrims needed to use the number just last week.
- Home Responsibilities -
- Bills - Make sure you have your home bills covered. I have everything on-line now, so I just paid all my bills via my phone while on the Camino.
- Mail - Our US Postal service has a great phone app where you can place a hold on your mail for a month. I did it and then let it sit at the postal office. Then set a reminder for myself when the month was up (for I was gone 5 weeks), went into the app and set another hold. When I got home, they had a hug bin of mail waiting for me at the post office that I picked up.
- Plants, pets... - You know the drill. I have a home, so I set light timers in my house for safety and let my neighbors know when I was leaving so they could keep watch.
- Travel etiquette and other tips - I thought this blog had some good tips for those traveling abroad for the first time. http://chrisguillebeau.com/28-things-i-wish-i-knew-before-i-started-traveling/
Happy Travels and Buen Camino!
Michelle
wear a cheap wedding band on your right index finger
Yes, he is looking for advice, which was offered. The OP has also been offered other advice here, all of which he is completely free to take and use, or chose not to use.
Lesson learned!When I walked/hiked alone in Europe in my 20s, I got a lot of unwanted and undesired attention from men. Someone told me about wearing a wedding ring and a lot of that harrassment stopped.
Yes, he is looking for advice, which was offered. The OP has also been offered other advice here, all of which he is completely free to take and use, or chose not to use.
Thank you Icacos.
Please add some emoticons or 'LOLs' or something next time to indicate that you are trying to be funny, LauraK.
Doug, I am trying to imagine you as reticent and dependent upon "ring language" to convey your attitude toward unwanted attention. Nope, can't do it. I think you're safe.This might be true, but I must admit to being of like mind to @LauraK when I saw your original advice on wearing a ring, especially on the index finger.
I now cannot decide whether to remove all my rings completely because of the the mixed messages it would seem to give having rings on the ring and middle fingers of my left hand, and the ring finger of my right hand. That said, I don't have any on either index finger, so perhaps I can leave them where they are without too much stress.
Sorry...was trying to be funny and failed
I don't know that men wouldn't be subjected to unwanted approaches, but it is something I see women worry about more than men. Perhaps women have a keener sense of the risks of travelling alone, or are more prepared to discuss these publicly.Well, maybe it only happens to women then.
Doug, I am trying to imagine you as reticent and dependent upon "ring language" to convey your attitude toward unwanted attention. Nope, can't do it. I think you're safe.
From my experience the Germans also wear their wedding ring on their right hand...at least in Bavaria.Sorry, not true! We have a very mixed European family, not to count the friends. I do no know of any of them that wears their wedding ring on the right hand and that includes me, who got married in Europe!
Who does make anexception are the Dutch Protestants who, yes, wear their wedding ring on their right hand!
Stockholm like all of Denmark very expensive. They do not use or except euros. They use D Kroners. You can pay for everything with a credit card there even a cab. For a taste of home get a slushy at the 7/11 in the airport, its on the first floor. Public transportation is very good in Europe and a bargain. If its a long train ride, try to book a night train, that way you sleep on the way and can hit the ground running when you get there. I would also recommend that when possible book you rooms in advance.Hello all. I will be departing 10 September for stockholm from New York. I have never traveled outside of the states and plan on taking two weeks of travel around Europe before beginning the camino frances. I have a passport, backpack, boots, a sleeping bag, and a tent. Im 28 years old and feel like I can get by with the bare essentials. If there is any advice that someone with experience can share with me, it would be much appreciated. My main concern is that I will get to europe this fall and feel like an unprepared schmuck. Please advise if you know of something I absolutely should do before departing. Thanks so much. -Josh
He visited the forum last Wednesday.I’ve noticed that OP (his first) was on 23rd May and he’s not responded since - did we all scare him off with the abundance of advice ??(meant humourously)
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