Hi eok56, welcome to the Forum.
Q1: I presume that you have calculated your logistics for getting to Sarria for your day 2. Most guides suggest 5 days to walk Sarria to Santiago and, I would expect, you will want to spend some time exploring the lovely city when you arrive, there is much to see. As to pace - Sarria is 115 / 120 k from Santiago giving you 5 20 - 25k days, how leisurely you will find that will depend on how "match fit"you are; how you cope with carrying a pack for those sorts of distances on consecutive days. Frequent advice on this forum to new pilgrims is start slowly. Though if you want a more challenging walk start from Tricastela or even O' Cebreiro.
Q2: There is a broad variety of accommodation along the camino. Your group will find something to suit every taste and budget, but (that should probably be BUT) the chances of those coinciding - so you can socialise in the evenings and start together in the mornings - are slim. It won't be impossible but it will require organisation, probably some intensive web and forum surfing and a lot of careful planning and compromise. Booking in advance in July would be advisable at least some of the private accommodation along the route in the more popular stopping points. Xunta & Paroquial Albergues do not take bookings but most privately run Albergues do, as do the Pensions, Hostals, Hotels and Casa Rurals.
And an entirely personal viewpoint - Albergues are part and parcel of the Camino experience. Not a requisite and certainly not compulsory, but definitely memorable.