Missing Mike
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- Time of past OR future Camino
- May 2016
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My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for the loss of your son. This journey may be just the thing to help you realize that life does go on and that you want to live yours to it's fullest. I too have suffered loss in these last few years. I am taking my journey to help me understand that there is a reason I am still here and that I was not just an identical twin, but that I am a unique individual. I pray that you can begin to work through your grief and feel that joy that this life can bring. I am sure i will be doing some crying along the way as I work through my accumulated grief also. You are welcome to start out with me. I am starting out May 12th from St Jean Pied de Port. Blessings!My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you!!I'm sorry about the loss of your son. I hope the Camino helps you in dealing with his loss.
As far as equipment advice goes, all I can recommend is that you pack as lightly as you can. You really do not need to carry much, and certainly don't need any real cold weather gear for May and June.
Being that you are petite sized, I would recommend that you carry a backpack no bigger than 35L size and carry the lightest summer weight sleeping bag you can find and the Camino is far from being hiking. It really is just walking.
Make sure your footwear is something that isn't too heavy and will be able to get you across long walks for a month, blister free.
Don't know about the SIM card for the phone, but there is free wi-fi all over the Camino. Albergues, bars, cafes, etc. Maybe you can download and send your photos via the net, on something like Skype or Facebook.
ultreia
Hugs, blessings and peace. Buen camino.My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
... chose a pack, throw in some clothes, you will be fine. Yes, take poles. Or buy some along the way if the decision is too hard and you are not sure. You are giving yourself plenty of time and going at a good time of the year. Just about anything you need can be purchased along the way.
Missing Mike, May The Almighty show us all his MERCY. Your grief is known only to our Creator and to you. May you walk in His light and carry to him the burden of your loss. Peace be with you. Buen Camino, CaesarMy only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
May love and prayers go with you, and help you to heal.My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
I am so sorry for the terrible loss of your son. I don't know where you are spiritually, but may I suggest the following. Last May-June I walked the Camino over a period of 41 days, five of which were days of rest. For my spiritual intention, I chose the health of the young son of a friend of mine. He had been under treatment for childhood leukemia for about a year and a half. After suffering two relapses, he received a bone marrow transplant last March. I took 50 pictures of him with me. Every day I placed one, and occasionally two, somewhere along the day's route. Most of the time I chose a church or a chapel, but sometimes I used outdoor monuments, crosses, etc. Perhaps leaving a picture or personal item of your son's along the way would help bring you comfort and peace. I wish you Buen Camino.My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Wow, that was profound!! Said alot to me. Thanks"My feet will want to walk to where you are sleeping, but I shall go on living"…..Pablo Neruda
Take heart…..in fact, take all our hearts with you. MaggieWow, that was profound!! Said alot to me. Thanks
My sincerest condolences on the loss of your son. I send my prayers on a safe and healing Camino. As you feel that push realize it'll likely be your son urging you forward.My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?). I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener. I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel. Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
My heart goes out to you I believe the Camino will give you the strength and courage to carry on. The countless people you meet on the way will definitely help you. Blessings and my prayers go out to you.My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Beautiful and kind!Dear Missing Mike, I have had the benefit of this forum for almost 5 years and I doubt I have seen a more heartfelt response from my fellow pilgrims to a cry for help. As I am not a parent I have no concept of your pain. But rest-assured your "new" pilgrim family will envelop you every kilometre/mile of your journey. The symbolic hugs and shoulders (to cry on) will be there every step of the way.
A couple of suggestions for the Camino itself - take the first week slow and steady - 4 or 5 days to reach Pamplona; plan rest days in Burgos and Leon (the cathedral in Burgo requires 4 hours and even then you will not take it all in). You will find you become part of a "camino family"(people you will walk with each day), but if you find you want time "for you" they will understand because this is your camino; your healing. So a very special "buen camino" and joy in every step. (from another Mike!)
IDear Missing Mike,
A brand new branch of American Pilgrims on the Camino has just started up in Austin. We just attended our first meeting, and the people there were incredibly supportive. I think you would find much help and support there. Send me a private message and I will get in touch with you.
We start from from St. Jean on April 25th! So I'm sure we will see you there. We'll be the slowpokes everyone passes by!
Mary
Wow, that was profound!! Said alot to me. Thanks
I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious son, Mike. I cannot even imagine the loss. Onesmcsrd.com is my Europe Simcard go to becaus I have a us and Europe number.My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
May you find peace after the death of your son. I lost my father six days before I left on my Camino this past fall. I found the Camino experience to be healing. I hope you find what you need at this time.My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
I am leaving Toronto Canada on May 31 and arriving in Madrid June 1st. spending two days in Madrid then possibly going to Lourdes France by train again two days then walk from Lourdes to hopefully Santiago..have 43 days to do it.My heart goes out to you I believe the Camino will give you the strength and courage to carry on. The countless people you meet on the way will definitely help you. Blessings and my prayers go out to you.
My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
@missingmike - I am so sorry .. I burst into tears when I read your post. The dread of every parent .... such a loss .... but, you seem a courageous person, a person willing to move forward ... a person - noting the kleenex - who is not afraid to enter the pain .. I think you will do very well indeed on your pilgrimage.
The Cruz de Ferro is an important place for what is in your heart; if I may suggest, take something that remembers you both, and leave it there.
One can think that one will never laugh again but this is not true. Nor is it right to feel guilty to laugh, nor to love ... life goes on, and I do not believe that he would want you to stay held within your sorrow ..... this may seem facile but if you have not watched the film The Way, with Martin Sheen, could I suggest that you do? - it is relevant to your situation (they are cheap on Ebay).
As for practical things ... you are obviously a seasoned hiker and traveller and are used to being alone, so it is not surprising that you have given yourself the right amount of time .... as you are coming unexpectedly, as it were, you may be tempted to bring all that you may need with you - don't do this, travel as light as possible. The Camino is not like hiking in a national park where you need so much survival stuff, it is a daily repeated 'stroll'. Spain is full of shops so you can get anything you find you do need and as you already know, walking light and walking heavy makes a Huge difference.
Be kind to yourself ... be willing to laugh as well as to cry - religious people, when confronted with such a terrible shock can have problems with their "faith". It is worth knowing that the original word, before it was translated from the Greek to the Latin then to English was "trust" - and that is what we all have to do; Trust .... that all is well, that all will be well ...however it may appear right now.
our hearts, all of us, go out to you ... your son is gone, but not lost, not lost at all ...a poem for you ....
Gone From My Sight
I am standing upon the seashore. A ship, at my side,
spreads her white sails to the moving breeze and starts
for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength.
I stand and watch her until, at length, she hangs like a speck
of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.
Then, someone at my side says, "There, she is gone."
Gone where?
Gone from my sight. That is all. She is just as large in mast,
hull and spar as she was when she left my side.
And, she is just as able to bear her load of living freight to her destined port.
Her diminished size is in me -- not in her.
And, just at the moment when someone says, "There, she is gone,"
there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices
ready to take up the glad shout, "Here she comes!" "Here she comes!"
I wish you a Buen Camino xx
My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
I can help you with equipment a backpack, waterproof stuff sacks, a small light. Time can help Mikes memory will always be with you ,find joy in those memories..My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
My only son, my beloved Mike is gone with no warning. So I walk this El Camino to find life, purpose and a will to live if it is meant to be. This is what I have so far--This is a journey for me, not a race, as it is the journey of my life right now.
I plan to leave Austin, TX to Madrid--April 26th
Return from Madrid--June 8
which roughly gives me 44 days give or take a day or two for travel (should I allow more days?).
I have done hiking before to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons along and though out Europe staying in Hostels and always traveling alone.
I am 4'10" (I wished) and currently weight 109 lbs. So how big can my pack/rig be and most important what is most important for me to carry considering my weight and of course Kleenex. These packs can be so expensive so which would be the best given my height and weight? I went to REI last night and that was an eye opener.
I figure I will start the uphill climb first, since that seems to mirror my life so far. Where I go, when and how I will get there is in God's/Spirit's hands.
I figure I will need some poles. I already have walking books which are broken in.
I want to take my phone for pics and text messages home. I figure the best would be to get a new sim card there, but I could be wrong. How will I be able to recharge my phone without it being stolen?
My only son is gone so the simple things in life are about all I can handle. I don't want to go during peak times so that is why I am choosing now. I like the shoulder season for travel.
Life is about the journey, and now without my even seeing it coming, I am on a different one.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Some locals are helping me with some gear, but thank you.I can help you with equipment a backpack, waterproof stuff sacks, a small light. Time can help Mikes memory will always be with you ,find joy in those memories..
please contact me after March 22 I am traveling in Laos ...Ultreya... Willy/Utah/USA
From memory the pack is an Osprey probably 30-35 liters small or medium with one little scratch left by a bear.
Dear Missing Mike -
I add my sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved son.
Something that you can do which may help your grief is to formally dedicate your Camino to your son. Naturally Mike will be in your thoughts all the time, but to make a formal dedication, as you wake each morning, or as you take your first steps each day, is a wonderful thing ... something along the lines of "I dedicate this day to you, my darling Mike".
When I finished my camino in 2012 I found a huge leather-bound register in the Pilgrims' Office, close to the counter where pilgrims receive their compostelas. Pilgrims can write dedications and other messages in that register. I had dedicated my camino to my Mum and Dad (both deceased), for giving me my life and for all the blessings and love they gave me. They were constantly in my thoughts every day as I walked. It meant so much to me to add my dedication to that register - I was overcome with emotion with the privilege of being able to write of my love for my parents in far-off Santiago - such a sacred place - and to think that my dedication joined the hundreds of thousands of messages of love in countless numbers of the same register over countless years - all to be kept in Santiago. Placing my dedication in the register meant (and still means) as much as the compostela did and does. The Pilgrims' Office has now moved but I hope that another of the registers is still in place in the new office so that pilgrims may continue to write their messages. I hope that you are able to add your dedication to your precious son Mike in the current register.
May your camino bring you solace and bring you hope -
Buen Camino -
Jenny
Jenny---Dear Missing Mike -
I add my sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved son.
Something that you can do which may help your grief is to formally dedicate your Camino to your son. Naturally Mike will be in your thoughts all the time, but to make a formal dedication, as you wake each morning, or as you take your first steps each day, is a wonderful thing ... something along the lines of "I dedicate this day to you, my darling Mike".
When I finished my camino in 2012 I found a huge leather-bound register in the Pilgrims' Office, close to the counter where pilgrims receive their compostelas. Pilgrims can write dedications and other messages in that register. I had dedicated my camino to my Mum and Dad (both deceased), for giving me my life and for all the blessings and love they gave me. They were constantly in my thoughts every day as I walked. It meant so much to me to add my dedication to that register - I was overcome with emotion with the privilege of being able to write of my love for my parents in far-off Santiago - such a sacred place - and to think that my dedication joined the hundreds of thousands of messages of love in countless numbers of the same register over countless years - all to be kept in Santiago. Placing my dedication in the register meant (and still means) as much as the compostela did and does. The Pilgrims' Office has now moved but I hope that another of the registers is still in place in the new office so that pilgrims may continue to write their messages. I hope that you are able to add your dedication to your precious son Mike in the current register.
May your camino bring you solace and bring you hope -
Buen Camino -
Jenny
David... you are a wonderful son... you were a gift to your parents. Such a thoughtful man to dedicate each day to the memory of your parents... all children could take a page out of your book. Thank you for who you are.What a Marvellous post! Especially the morning dedication each day - marvellous post.
Ouf...you are not helping me either! Lost a son 15 years ago and sometimes I still wonder about this statement!!!! My heart si and will be with you Missing Mike. Am starting the Camino on March 30th for the same reasons....!!!"My feet will want to walk to where you are sleeping, but I shall go on living"…..Pablo Neruda
David... you are a wonderful son... you were a gift to your parents. Such a thoughtful man to dedicate each day to the memory of your parents... all children could take a page out of your book. Thank you for who you are.
ooops! sorry for my mistake... you are probably a wonderful son anywayNomadko - no, not so wonderful - that was JennyH who dedicated to her parents ...
thank you kindly - and also for helping me notice that i did not include the author, but the translator. will be duly edited.Amorfati1 - another lovely post - I find this thread so heartening - such good and kind people ... some have seen the original post and walked on by on the other side, on their busy ways .. but the ones who have stopped, stopped and spoken - angels all xxx
The poem - Rumi I think?
You are very welcome... Ultreya....WillySome locals are helping me with some gear, but thank you.
Each time I walk the Way and, although I take each of them with me, I find a strength and a purpose with those pilgrims walking with me, before me and following in trace.
Arn
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