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I hope not Angela as I start on Thursday, I gather sometimes it can actually be hard to actually walk alone rather than with company as is the Camino social spirit on the trail. Soon going to find out.Hi everyone,
I'm taking my first camino in less than 24 hours! (woot woot) I am walking alone because I have lots to think about, but I would really like to make some friends and walk in a group because it seems like a perfect time to make deep connections with others. Does having walking buddies take anything away from having an individual experience? Is there less time to think about what you came to think about? What were your experiences like?
Sincerely,
Angela
Of course, it depends on the person (introverted, extroverted - the first is "full" when they are alone, others when they are in the company). My experience is that at the time when I was in the company of someone who know him from before - the conversation starts about things that have been or will be. So you are not "here and now", but in the past / future. Some parts of the route can not remember because I was in a conversation. Such, I repeat that parts in the following years and it was better for me - I watched more and be more open to new friendshipsI am a quite solitary and introverted person by nature. My wife often describes me to others as a married hermit with two kids (now adults). In general I much prefer to walk alone on long distance journeys: free to choose my own pace, distances, eating places, accommodation and so on. I also enjoy the silence and opportunity for reflection which that gives. I occasionally find interesting companions along the way with whom I enjoy a few hours walking together. An unexpected pleasure. Rarely for more than one day though. About once a year I walk for a few days with one particular friend I have known well for nearly 30 years and with whom I have a great deal in common. Often we chat and laugh a lot, but we are also happy and free to walk in silence together for long periods. Walking with others can be a challenge in managing each other's expectations. I am too much of a control freak to enjoy rising to that test. Personally I would not set out with the definite idea of finding and joining a "Camino family". From the way you phrase your question I suspect you are a very different person who would enjoy the experience. Something I think might be better left to happen spontaneously than forced in any way. The chemistry of walking companionship is complicated and mysterious: more alchemy than science. Just let it bubble away and see what happens.
Some parts of the route can not remember because I was in a conversation.
My hubby and I prefer to walk by ourselves and when meeting up with pilgrims along the routes have a short chat and then carry on again. We mostly all meet up at the next albergue and can then get better aquainted if wanted.Hi everyone,
I'm taking my first camino in less than 24 hours! (woot woot) I am walking alone because I have lots to think about, but I would really like to make some friends and walk in a group because it seems like a perfect time to make deep connections with others. Does having walking buddies take anything away from having an individual experience? Is there less time to think about what you came to think about? What were your experiences like?
Sincerely,
Angela
I think you'll find that you can do both. I chose to walk alone and loved it. I also walked with others from time to time and even though those times were short, the connection was strong and meaningful in many ways. Wish you Buen Camino.Hi everyone,
I'm taking my first camino in less than 24 hours! (woot woot) I am walking alone because I have lots to think about, but I would really like to make some friends and walk in a group because it seems like a perfect time to make deep connections with others. Does having walking buddies take anything away from having an individual experience? Is there less time to think about what you came to think about? What were your experiences like?
Sincerely,
Angela
I hope not Angela as I start on Thursday, I gather sometimes it can actually be hard to actually walk alone rather than with company as is the Camino social spirit on the trail. Soon going to find out.
This is a brilliant reply!Walking with others is a part of the individual experience.
I Walked with a newly met buddy for the first week and loved it. Two minds to look for arrows and great conversation. I miss him now but will find another.Hi everyone,
I'm taking my first camino in less than 24 hours! (woot woot) I am walking alone because I have lots to think about, but I would really like to make some friends and walk in a group because it seems like a perfect time to make deep connections with others. Does having walking buddies take anything away from having an individual experience? Is there less time to think about what you came to think about? What were your experiences like?
Sincerely,
Angela
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