- Time of past OR future Camino
- Frances SJPP to SdC Oct/Nov 2015
Frances Burgos toSdC March/April 2016
W. Highland Way August 2016
Camino Somewhere September 2017
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A while back (2-3 months ago) I did remove the link to the list that showed who had the most likes and the most posts... since I did not want it to become a competition of "Who can post most posts...". The page still exists her:Am I completely losing it?
It seems really different, with no longer a staff or members area. I can't find most posts, most likes, etc.
What I do see is most views, most resources. In other words, it seems like the forum has been modified Did gremlins come when I was sleeping?
I'm either really tired and seeing it differently, or it changed.
A while back (2-3 months ago) I did remove the link to the list that showed who had the most likes and the most posts... since I did not want it to become a competition of "Who can post most posts...". The page still exists her:
https://www.caminodesantiago.me/community/members/
...for those interested in this.
Other than that... no changes on my end.
@William Marques :Many of us did not have much time for the forum over Christmas!
@William Marques :
https://www.caminodesantiago.me/community/threads/coping-with-family-drama-at-christmastime.37542/
My Christmas was not the typical one this year! This one goes down as the second worse, just coming behind the year that my father compared me to a "sneaky" war collaborator for having his driver's license taken away...sigh!
A while back (2-3 months ago) I did remove the link to the list that showed who had the most likes and the most posts... since I did not want it to become a competition of "Who can post most posts...". The page still exists her:
https://www.caminodesantiago.me/community/members/
...for those interested in this.
Other than that... no changes on my end.
My older brother took my father on a lengthy fishing trip about the time that Dad's driving licence was about to expire unless he did tests to prove his continuing capability. Dad enjoyed the trip and just said that he missed his driving test so had to give it up. Good feelings all around and Dad did not have to acknowledge that he was not safe to drive. This type of excursion might not be possible, or the legal context not be the same, for every elderly person who does not know that he/she is no longer competent to drive.
What a lovely way to defer!
Autonomy and independence are greatly valued by all of us. Honestly, I think that one of the huge draws of Camino Frances--for those of us who are older--is the ability to go, walk, eat, drink, and worship independently. As our bodies get less cooperative, it's just a huge joy.
My dad? he was on hospice and having a "last whirl" get-together with four old buddies. He drove into town with one of them, a gentleman who later admitted that he was ready to grab the wheel. At that time, Pop was not walking, and to hear that he had gotten up, walked to the drawer where the key was HIDDEN, and driven his huge Ram truck was surprising---at the very least.
Dad lived every day until he died.
I found another place for the key.
Is there any way to see most viewed / liked / replied to messages over time (not just the past few days)? I would think those would be most insightful...
Ivar, I think the present set-up is perfectly adequate.
For which thank you.
Anything more would only complicate and confuse a newcomer looking for advice and information
And anything less would not be sufficient.
I want my son to remember this for me! Thank you!My older brother took my father on a lengthy fishing trip about the time that Dad's driving licence was about to expire unless he did tests to prove his continuing capability. Dad enjoyed the trip and just said that he missed his driving test so had to give it up. Good feelings all around and Dad did not have to acknowledge that he was not safe to drive. This type of excursion might not be possible, or the legal context not be the same, for every elderly person who does not know that he/she is no longer competent to drive.
We keep reminding our son and DIL that everything I am experiencing with my parents right now will be in their hands 25 years from now with us. Mom hasn't driven in 6-7 years and didn't pass her last renewal since she couldn't see (she has since had cataract surgery). My brother and I had to talk Dad's GP into writing a letter to him (Dad) saying that he is no longer allowed to drive and that it is on record. (not that police officers would every check).I want my son to remember this for me! Thank you!
We keep reminding our son and DIL that everything I am experiencing with my parents right now will be in their hands 25 years from now with us. Mom hasn't driven in 6-7 years and didn't pass her last renewal since she couldn't see (she has since had cataract surgery). My brother and I had to talk Dad's GP into writing a letter to him (Dad) saying that he is no longer allowed to drive and that it is on record. (not that police officers would every check).
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