Simpleman66
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- Time of past OR future Camino
- October 2023
My wife and I are planning on walking our first Camino starting October 3rd from Leon to Santiago de Compostela.
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Thank you for your thoughts!My husband walked from Burgos in early September 2021 to his albergue service on the Meseta at Caldazilla de los Hermanillos and then on to Ponferada in October afterwards. He had to stop and buy a jacket at Decathlon in October. Unless you are staying only in private rooms with linens. I recommend a 3 season sleeping bag rather than a liner bag for these months.
Sometimes when I ask specific questions, I curate the answers according to what I know to ask about. Its fun to see what pops in peoples minds. I learn things I did not know I should even ask! For example, I am glad you thought "how nice" rather than "Oh no!"My first thought was "How nice that @Simpleman66 is planning a Camino for October, but I have no idea what he is expecting with this post.!" (Sorry, but you asked!)
Have you walked significant distances together in the past?My wife and I are planning on walking our first Camino starting October 3rd from Leon to Santiago de Compostela.
I have walked the Camino Frances several times in October, and I think it might be the best time, especially given the numbers in some other months.I am glad you thought "how nice" rather than "Oh no!"
Love the advice! Thank you so much, so practical!Have you walked significant distances together in the past?
I ask because while I enjoy walking with others, when I am on Camino there are often times when I want to walk on my own and I have heard from others that they too like to keep their own company from time to time on Camino.
It is possible that you and your wife may also have these times when you want to walk alone.
I think that it is a good idea to discuss this before you start walking so that if it does come up for either of you then it doesn't cause an issue.
Also, if you haven't yet walked together for significant distances then if possible, take the time to do this before you leave so that you both know that you can walk at a compatible pace or if not then you develop a technique such as walking ahead and then waiting for the other party.
So good to hear. I feel a compulsion to go and walk, but this was the only time I could open up on my schedule. Your post is reassuring!I have walked the Camino Frances several times in October, and I think it might be the best time, especially the numbers in some other months.
Thank you for adding to the wisdom. More discussions to have!Buen Camino!
As @DoughnutANZ mentioned consider having The Talk on how to approach Camino as a couple. Do you both need to walk together? Will one of you be fine with the other walking ahead and meeting up at the day's end stage? What happens if one of you decides it's not what they imagined and wants to stop walking, do they bus to the next town while the other walks?
I hope you have a wonderful time and that your aches and pains are minimal!
You make this sound like some social experiment that you are conducting on your fellow forum members for no specific reason but your own enjoyment. While I expect that many of us will have made first posts of a very general nature, other than the title of the thread, you haven't even bothered to ask a question in the post. What gives? If you need help with something, ask. There are many forum members always willing to help. Letting everyone know when you are walking is fine too, and there might be some people walking at the same time that will remember you telling us that and look out for you along the way. But please, don't think posting just to have a bit of fun at other forum members expense is going to be seen as engaging with us honestly and openly.Sometimes when I ask specific questions, I curate the answers according to what I know to ask about. Its fun to see what pops in peoples minds. I learn things I did not know I should even ask! For example, I am glad you thought "how nice" rather than "Oh no!"
Oh Doug, my fellow pilgrim, I would never do this as any kind of experiment. I am sorry for having offended you somehow. I am asking with the very intention of learning from so many here who have walked these paths over the years. But I am new and I do not know what I do not know, this is why I asked so broadly. I have already recieved blessing from the wisdom shared about relationship on the Camino, things to be prepared for and the value of doing this in October from this location. I am trying to learn much more broadly, I am brand new to all of this. JMac56, RJM, K_Lynn, C Clearly, Doughnut ANZ and J Willhaus have already contributed from their experiences and wisdom, I am so thankful for this. I value those who have gone before me in every area of life, that was why I joined this forum.You make this sound like some social experiment that you are conducting on your fellow forum members for no specific reason but your own enjoyment. While I expect that many of us will have made first posts of a very general nature, other than the title of the thread, you haven't even bothered to ask a question in the post. What gives? If you need help with something, ask. There are many forum members always willing to help. Letting everyone know when you are walking is fine too, and there might be some people walking at the same time that will remember you telling us that and look out for you along the way. But please, don't think posting just to have a bit of fun at other forum members expense is going to be seen as engaging with us honestly and openly.
Thank you Flauna for sharing what you have learned, it is valuable. Thank you also for coming to my aid, I meant no harm.The OP's comment was posted in the Introduce Yourself sub forum so assuming this is exactly that, an introduction post. (hello @Simpleman66 )
First thoughts are requested on this information:
- walking with his wife
- it's his first Camino
- they're walking in October
- stage is Leon to Santiago
@Simpleman66 Since I've not done a Camino yet myself I don't have much wisdom to offer but I do have a partner and we have travelled so from that perspective my thoughts would be - you need to be very clear at the outset about expectations, walking together (or not), continuing alone if needed if one gets an injury while the other bussed ahead for example, what your deal breakers are etc.
From a "stage" perspective, you've chosen a beautiful place to start. I hope you take a day or two to look around and explore.
Enjoy!